I was at a Star Trek convention today (yes, I am a Trekkie) and while I had lots of fun with all the exhibits and activities, one ceremony stands out in my mind. The Klingon club had a ceremony giving rank increases out to members and such. At the end of the ceremony, they unveiled a flag for a new squadron -- in the name of one of their members that passed away last year from breast cancer.

The members of this club spoke lovingly about her and were very proud of all the work they put into the flag. To some people it may seem strange that they chose this way to remember her, but I think that it is wonderful that her friends will always have her memory honored in this way. Obviously this was something that was important in her life and something that she enjoyed doing. Remembering the people lost to cancer in a way that honors their lives is a great comfort to those left behind.

People have different ways to deal with their grief. Some get involved in fund raising to find a cure. Others get active in education and teaching people how to prevent the cancer that stole their loved one. Some people make sure to tell the life story of their friend or family member, so that they will never be forgotten. Others have a newly formed Klingon squadron that will march proudly in the name of a fallen comrade. How do you remember and honor your loved one?