I remember reading that Barbara Delinsky, novelist and breast cancer survivor, never shared her diagnosis of cancer until well after her fight was over. She feared the news would somehow halt her career in the publishing world. She wanted to remain untainted by disease in the eyes of her readers and bosses so she saved her secret. The secret is out now -- and is also part of a book she wrote called Uplift: Secrets from the Sisterhood of Breast Cancer Survivorship. She is in the clear now -- but she once feared the consequences of managing both cancer and her career.

The experts who offer a website resource at cancerandcareers.org believe that it is possible to combine cancer and career without fear or worry or secrecy. The advice provided on this site offers wisdom for working women and for employers and for co-workers. There is also a forum for shared stories -- where all of these individuals weigh in on their experiences. There are reading recommendations and a listing of available programs and services and a complete story about how this all came about.

Five years ago, the Board of Directors at Cosmetic Executive Women -- the preeminent nonprofit organization representing women in the U.S. and European beauty industries -- realized that five out of their 40 members had been diagnosed with cancer. Some told their colleagues at work and some did not. But all continued to work and experienced similar challenges. The fact is that work does not stop for all women who have been diagnosed with cancer. So the mission of this group is to help women, their employers, coworkers, and caregivers deal with this problem in the same way that they have learned to deal with problems at work -- strategically, knowledgeably, and effectively. With the right tools, stress and difficulty can be minimized. And this site is one great tool.

Stress is not good. Long-term stress can suppress the immune system. Part of cancer prevention is supporting a healthy immune system so it can do the job of stopping cancer before it has a chance to develop into disease.

Whether stress is related to work or family life, most of us experience too much stress in our daily life. Why the same events will cause some people stress and not others, or why the same event can cause us to experience stress at one time but not seem to bother us as much at a different time, is largely based on our perception of the event and how we define what is happening.

One of the best ways to escape stress? Never personalize what is taking place. Easier said than done, but with practice, it works in reducing the amount of stress and the number of times you experience stress in a day. Still, easier said than done.

According to a Look Good Feel Better survey, women who are undergoing treatment for cancer believe they are being treated differently at work because of the physical appearance changes that often occur due to cancer treatments. The survey is being released as part of  National Cancer Survivors Day. Some of the findings in the survey report that:

• 69 percent of women indicated their appearance changed during chemotherapy or radiation.
• 83 percent of women indicated they were self-conscious of their appearance during treatment.
• Almost 50 percent of women indicated that the change in their appearance during treatment resulted in friends and co-workers treating them differently.
• Less than 50 percent of women sought help to cope with appearance-related side effects of cancer treatment.
  

Look Good Feel Better is a free, nationwide cancer support program that matches volunteer beauty professionals with small groups of cancer patients to show them how to use cosmetics, wigs and head coverings to camouflage the hair loss, skin discoloration and extreme dryness that can result for cancer treatments. When you go from struggling with a momentary bad hair day to a continuous no-hair day, or unflattering skin conditions that you did not have before cancer treatments, it can get your spirits down. It can be shocking to look in the mirror and not recognize the person staring back. Look Good Feel Better helps 50,000 women each year. For more information about the program, go here.

Of the cancer charity fundraisers, Australia's Biggest Morning Tea is the most charming -- and one of the most successful. Last year, Australia's Biggest Morning Tea raised $7.2 million dollars Australia-wide for Cancer Council Australia. The event also made it into the Guinness Book of Records for the World's Largest Simultaneous Tea Party.

Officially, the date of the tea is May 25, but it can be held any day during the month of May. According to the organizers, people in workplaces, homes, schools and community groups in towns and cities across Australia participate in Australia's Biggest Morning Tea. It's easy to participate. You simply contact the organization, state your interest in holding a tea, submit your contact information, and they send you a packet of information and a kit to get you set up to host a tea. The tea can be hosted anywhere. In your home, at your place of work, in the park, at the beach.

The Cancer Council is Australia's national non-government cancer control organization. The  organization offers patient support, works to improve treatments, acts as an advocate for cancer patients, provides information and funds research. As Australia's Biggest Morning Tea says about the tea time event, "Everyone loves a break: the chance to spend time with family, friends or colleagues. Once a year, having a break also helps in the fight against a disease that affects 1 in 3 Australians: Cancer." The idea of a tea just brings a smile.