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Posted Sep 26th 2006 1:00PM by Dalene Entenmann
Filed under: Breast Cancer, Products, Celebrity in memoriam, Celebrity news

In 1998, former Beatles Sir Paul McCartney lost his beloved wife Linda to breast cancer. At the time, she had been helping him work on his fourth classical album Ecce Cor Meum (Behold My Heart). When Linda died, Paul says in his grief the music stopped and he could not work for a year.
Ecce Cor Meum is an orchestral work in four movements. Interlude is Paul's tribute to Linda.
BBC News has quoted Paul as saying, "There is an interlude in the middle of Ecce Cor Meum which is a very sad piece of music. My colleague and I remember actually sitting at the keyboard just weeping when we were doing this piece. It does it to me every time. It was a very, very emotional, very sad time for me, obviously, losing Linda."
Last Sunday was Linda's birthday. The album Ecce Cor Meum, recorded at Abbey Road Studios in London, was released on Monday. For Paul, the timing of the release of this work is meaningful. If you plan to be in London on November 4, Ecce Cor Meum will be performed live at the Royal Albert Hall.
Ecce Cor Meum is available for sale at Amazon, with short audio samplings of Spiritus; Gratia; Interlude (Lament); Musica and Ecce Cor Meum. Some of the pieces have a delicate haunting sadness and an exquisitely beautiful emotional quality that makes the music superb. Ecce Cor Meum is a moving tribute of love and remembrance.
Posted Sep 23rd 2006 10:00AM by Jacki Donaldson
Filed under: Breast Cancer, Research, Daily news

I think it's safe to say that a large amount of women in this world lack self confidence. Tack on a few incisions and scars, some lop-sided or altogether missing breasts, a handful of scattered blue tattoos, a head full of newly sprouting hair, swelling arms, drug-damaged fingernails and toenails, damaged veins, alien-like ports protruding from underneath skin, unpredictable hot flashes, and a foggy brain and it's clear that women surviving breast cancer may have a few of their own issues concerning self confidence. It doesn't take science to prove this reality -- although there are studies out there that do confirm and validate that breast cancer survivors struggle with positive self images.
Results of a study released Wednesday reveal that the vast majority of breast cancer patients in Taiwan lose self confidence after having their breasts removed. The study shows that 90 percent of participants feel they have lost their beauty and femininity following a mastectomy. Women worry about their partner's perception of them after such radical appearance changes. They doubt their roles in their workplace and families. They are even afraid of having sex with their partners. And if the patients' relationship with their spouses are not good in the first place, breast removal surgery will lead to divorce about 10 percent of the time.
There is no doubt that female roles vary from country to country -- and what studies show in Taiwan may not be completely applicable to women in the United States. But there is one universal truth that knows no boundaries -- all women recovering from the ravages of breast cancer will encounter struggles. Because breast cancer does not discriminate when it comes to compromising the self esteem of its targets.
Posted Aug 31st 2006 6:30AM by Dalene Entenmann
Filed under: Breast Cancer, Prevention, Celebrity fundraisers, Celebrity spokesperson, Research, Celebrity news

It might be
celebrity gossip but news is flying around the internet that Nike has offered Jennifer Aniston a record deal for her celebrity endorsement in exchange for donations that will benefit cancer research. It is being reported Aniston will be appearing in both television commercials and print ads for Nike.
According to the buzz, it might be the most Nike has ever offered for a celebrity endorsement. For Jennifer Aniston? Is she that popular? I am not being snarky.
Really I am not. I just didn't know she was popular on the level that Nike would offer her the most money they have offered anyone for a celebrity endorsement.
Not long ago, Sheryl Crow publicly thanked her family and friends Jennifer Aniston and Courtney Cox for keeping her spirits up during the first days after breast cancer diagnosis. Maybe there is something to the Nike deal. If the amount of money being reported is true, and it is earmarked for cancer charity -- then it's worthy of a mention at The Cancer Blog. We appreciate any sizable donation to cancer research.
Posted Aug 2nd 2006 10:00AM by Dalene Entenmann
Filed under: Brain Cancer, Celebrity fundraisers, Celebrity spokesperson, Services

The
Head to Hollywood charity, founded by US Weekly magazine editor Ken Baker, a pituitary brain tumor survivor, and actress/model Carmen Electra, whose mother died of a malignant brain tumor, provides brain tumor patients with opportunities to spend a day being pampered as a star and experiencing life as a celebrity. This might include attendance at Hollywood events and parties, VIP access to television and movie sets, personal meetings with stars, as well as celebrity spa and beauty treatments.
Recently, Ritz Camera Centers
announced they have chosen Carmen Electra as spokesperson for several new products they will be introducing, and as part of the new promotion, the company is launching a fundraising campaign for Head to Hollywood. In the next few weeks, Ritz Camera Centers will be offering a limited edition poster for the
Head to Hollywood charity and posting photos taken by Carmen Electra, who is reported to be a photographer in her own right, at their
website.
Posted Jun 16th 2006 10:20PM by Vicki Blankenship
Filed under: Breast Cancer, All Cancers, Research, Opinion, Environment, Stress Reduction
Nearly seven in ten marriages touched by breast cancer do not survive. Trauma of any kind can split a weak marriage and divorce rates are at an all time high with 6 out of 10 marriages ending. So how do you support your spouse, wife, or life partner when they are going through breast cancer so your relationship does not end?
We are all given trials and life threatening trauma has got to be one of the worst. It can tear you apart or it can build character. For a long period of time one partner may have to shoulder most of the responsibility while the other is sick, weak, and going through surgery and treatment. This can lead to stress and arguments between the two of you or worse it could cause you to harbor feelings inside and start looking for a way out.
Some of the simple things you can do as the supporting spouse is tell her you love her. Don't be silent in your thoughts and discuss your concerns, feelings, and needs. Seek the help of friends and family with every day chores to help with things in and around the home. Don't feel like you have to be super man or wonder woman. Let her know you love her and not her breasts and be sensitive to her feelings and emotions. Find time to do things together that you both enjoy. And one very important thing to remember is let her lead back into the sexual relationship between the two of you giving her time to feel desirable and wanted.
Posted Jun 5th 2006 10:11AM by Dalene Entenmann
Filed under: Skin Cancer, Melanoma, Prevention, Teen Cancers, Celebrity news

Celebrities can bring awareness to cancer causes. Celebrities can attract money to cancer fundraisers. Celebrities influence our society in fashion and lifestyle trends. Whether you are one who thinks celebrities have too much influence, and wondering why there seems a global obsession with celebrity -- or you are someone who applauds the efforts of those who have risen to success in fame and fortune and take time to give back, there is no doubting celebrities have power. And even when celebrities aren't trying to make a difference, they do, by the simple fact they are a celebrity.
A news story out of Canada is reporting that
young girls, inspired by fair-skinned celebrities like Australian actress Nicole Kidman, are rejecting the fashion standard that a tan makes you attractive and embracing what they are calling the
pale and proud of it attitude. When it comes to reducing the rising incidence of skin cancer, this couldn't come as better news. Really good news since it is in the young where a shocking number of new skin cancer cases are being diagnosed, a trend that is fairly recent to our times.
Posted May 23rd 2006 9:00AM by Dalene Entenmann
Filed under: Breast Cancer, Prostate Cancer, Alternative Therapies, Ovarian Cancer, Prevention, Cancer events

On May 24, 2006, The Vegetarian and Vegan Foundation will be launching
White Lies, a campaign to raise awareness of the health risks of consuming dairy products.
Why You Don't Need Dairy, an event to mark the beginning of the campaign, will feature Heather Mills McCartney as a speaker who will call for milk to be dropped from the nation's diet.
At the same time, the Physicians Committee for Responsible Medicine, PCRM, a nonprofit health organization comprised of physicians and nutritionists, will be asking consumers to eliminate dairy from their diet for three weeks to see if they notice an improvement in health.
In three short weeks, PCRM is confident those who take the dairy-free challenge will notice immediate benefit in better digestion, easier breathing, better sleep, a lessening of headaches and for sufferers of acne or dermatitis -- clear skin. Health benefits that are not immediately noticeable but of significant value is a reduction in the risk of prostate and ovarian cancer. Research had proven the link between dairy and these two cancers. Because dairy products such as cheese, ice cream, milk, butter, and yogurt all contain high levels of fat, it is reasonable to assume there might be a dairy link to other cancers as well.
The Nutrition Resource Centre of the Ontario Public Health Association, has published
Non-Dairy Sources of Calcium, available as a PDF document online, with food suggestions that offer plenty of calcium.
Posted May 17th 2006 7:22PM by Dalene Entenmann
Filed under: Breast Cancer, Ovarian Cancer, Prevention

Paul McCartney lost both his mother Mary and his first wife Linda to breast cancer. Heather Mills McCartney, his current wife, is an
outspoken advocate for cancer prevention, campaigning for the reduction of dairy products that can lead to greater risk for some cancers -- like
ovarian cancer.
I have admired the efforts both have made for cancer prevention. Today, it was announced that the two have separated and will be
getting a divorce. Of course speculation immediately turned to financial matters, with tongues wagging about how much Paul is worth and how much Heather stands to receive, considering there is no prenuptial agreement.
The couple issued a joint statement insisting their split was friendly -- but said that intrusions by the media made it difficult to sustain their relationship. Well! This turn of event isn't going to dim the lights on the media extravaganza that has surrounded them. The end of a marriage is difficult, and I am just sad to see that two people who have spent time and money working to improve the lives and health of others will be suffering personal pain on a world stage. You can read personal messages directly from Paul
here.
Posted Apr 29th 2006 5:45PM by Dalene Entenmann
Filed under: Brain Cancer, Melanoma
"The reports of my death have been greatly exaggerated." -- Mark Twain
According to
several international news services and tabloid newspapers with an online presence, Elizabeth Taylor, legendary movie
star and cancer survivor, is suffering
heart failure and near
death. Reported to be bedridden at her home in Bel Air, California, she is said to have cancelled her annual Easter
party to
plan her funeral. According to an unnamed friend,
"Liz is inching closer to death every day and she knows it. It is not a pretty picture. She's not leaving a lot of
money to her children. She wants the bulk of her fortune to go to AIDS research." I guess dying isn't enough of a
news story, a publisher decided to add this
scurrilous gossipy little comment from an
anonymous friend on how her estate will be settled. Other than her attorneys and estate planners, I doubt few
know the status of her will.
Her publicist, Dick Guttman, states that Taylor is
not near death, and is instead, quite
busy with her successful perfume and jewelry lines and the work she does for AIDS. "The endless health stories
surrounding Taylor's supposed impending death," Guttman says, "have just become exasperating." Mark
Twain predicted this one right. I cannot find any credible reports indicating that Guttman is playing smoke and mirrors
with the public. All the reports of Taylor's impending death do seem to be coming from very specific, and perhaps
slightly questionable, sources for news information. My vote for accuracy goes to Guttman. We send her our best wishes
for continued good health.
Posted Apr 7th 2006 8:30AM by Dalene Entenmann
Filed under: Thyroid Cancer, Prevention

Kim Stubblefield, former high school
cheerleader who worked nearly two decades at Union Hospital filing medical records, had it all. Marriage, family, work
and her health. She is now unemployed, uninsured and essentially homeless. What happened? First a divorce, and then a
throat cancer diagnosis. She lost her job, which led to her losing her health insurance. She has seizures, and a mild
stroke has left her slightly paralyzed in her left arm and leg. In the news story The Southern Illinoisan has
featured about her,
by her own admission, is a person who has run out of options and is quickly running out of hope. In a series of
bureaucratic rejections few of us would understand, Social Security disability won't help her, the Department of Public
Aid won't help her, and she has been told she doesn't qualify for Medicaid.
"I’ve always worked,
always contributed to what I would call the system," Stubblefield said. "But, I don’t understand how I
can just keep getting turned down and keep getting turned down over and over again. All I’m trying to do is stay
alive, so it goes far beyond frustrating. I just don’t understand how the system works." If this were an
isolated incident, it would be disturbing enough to shame us as a nation, but this is happening to people all over the
country. There are 45 million uninsured people in this country.
Jim Muir, columnist for The Southern
Illinoisan, writes in an Op-Ed piece,
We've failed our
moral test, "On the state level we can spend $9 million to elect an Illinois Supreme Court justice and
pay do-nothing, double-dipping politicians a six-figure retirement, but a dying woman can't get medical help. On a
national level we can spend hundreds of millions of dollars to build a bridge in Alaska that 50 people per day use and
a zillion dollars on a war in Iraq - but a cancer-stricken woman can't afford to go to the doctor. I don't care what
your political party affiliation is -- there is something tragically wrong with that picture." Indeed.
Posted Apr 6th 2006 12:03PM by Dalene Entenmann
Filed under: Breast Cancer, Alternative Therapies, Chemotherapy, Prevention

Cancer is a physical disease. But it has striking affects on mental, emotional and spiritual wellness too.
Worried
Sick: The Emotional Impact of Cancer is a report done by Macmillan Cancer Support that illustrates the devastating
emotional impact cancer can have for the patient and family living with cancer, and the lack of support services
available to address these needs. Depression, anxiety, and isolation are common feelings. The entire experience of
cancer can place a serious strain on the best of relationships. It can end less durable relationships. Divorce and
separation can be an outcome of the stress of living with a life-threatening illness. Cancer patients report feeling
alone and abandoned with no one they can really talk even when they do not live alone.
Personally, I know of
a woman who was struggling through the grueling ordeal of chemotherapy. She had suffered all the physical side-effects
of chemotherapy, such as hair loss, weight loss, weakness -- drained of any healthly glow. She was not in a good
marriage to begin with, but at her most vulnerable and weakest moment, her husband actually turned to her and said,
"Why don't you just hurry up and die." Up until that moment, she was not sure she was going to survive
cancer. In that moment, she became determined not only to survive cancer, but her husband. Today, years later, she is a
breast cancer survivor. True story.
For a surprising majority of cancer patients, the negative emotional
impact of cancer far outweighs the physical reality of having cancer. The complete report --
Worried
Sick: The Emotional Impact of Cancer -- is available as a PDF document.