Jack Osbourne, son of rock legend Ozzy and colon cancer survivor Sharon Osbourne, recently stated that he blames his alcohol and drug addiction on his father. During his mother Sharon's diagnosis and treatment for colon cancer, the young Jack used alcohol and the powerfully addictive prescription painkiller OxyContin as a way to cope. Jack is quoted as saying, "My problems peaked when mom was sick and dad was dealing with his problems the same way as I was, by drinking, so I had no one to turn to. I was just hanging out with my crowd drinking and doing drugs." Jack ended up in an addiction rehab clinic to get clean and sober.
This is no way excuses the badly-decided choices that Jack made when he turned to alcohol and drugs as a way to cope with his feelings, but there is a sharp focus and more than a bit of snarkiness to the news reports concerning Jack's blaming comment that misses a great opportunity in regard to discussing the impact a parent's cancer diagnosis has on children.
As the American Cancer Society (ACS) states, "Families face many complex issues when one of their members has cancer. There will probably be a time during a family's experience with cancer when psychosocial support services will be helpful in meeting the emotional needs of the family. There are teams of experts, each with a different focus, who offer support and are trained in how cancer affects a family." ACS offers a terrific resource for the family with the online publication of Helping Children When A Family Member Has Cancer.
The Family Doctor states, "Every person has a different way of handling news that a loved one has cancer. Many people react with shock, disbelief and even anger when they're first given the news." The Family Doctor's Cancer: Helping Your Family Help You offers advice on different questions a parent might have, such as:
- How will my family react to the news that I have cancer?
- Should I tell my children that I have cancer?
- How do I tell my children that I have cancer?
- How can I help my children cope with their feelings?
In the ACS online resource for families, it states, "Parents can have a powerful effect on how their children react to a crisis in the family. In the beginning this responsibility can feel like a huge weight, but it is possible for family members to learn how to deal with and even grow through the experience of having cancer in the family."
Support services can include individual counseling, family counseling, and support groups. If you do not know where to start, ask your physician or call the local hospital or local ACS office. Someone will be able to help you help your children, and all family members, navigate through the crisis of cancer, so that everyone becomes a survivor of cancer in the best way possible.


Late last March fans of rock legend and Aerosmith lead singer Steven Tyler became concerned over speculation that Tyler had been diagnosed with throat cancer. Even though the remaining Rockin' The Joint show dates were cancelled, everyone connected to Tyler assured the public the rumors were false. Steven Tyler did not have cancer. He was suffering from strained vocal cords and needed a rest.
Diahann Carroll, an actress who started her career back in the 50s, and Oscar nominee who has starred in such TV shows as Dynasty, will be reaching out to older women in an effort to raise breast cancer awareness and the breast cancer risks they face. Carroll, who was diagnosed at the age of 63, spoke with CBS The Early Show's Julie Chen about the shock of being diagnosed with breast cancer when she had no family history for the disease. At the time, she said she was much more concerned about preventing age-related diabetes and heart disease.
It's the global power of the internet and the phenomenon of social news -- of friends telling friends, and communities of friends telling other communities of friends -- by emailing a link to an interesting news story, that created a news story all its own. According to KOMO 4 News in Seattle, on May 7, a television news story they aired featuring a report on inflammatory breast cancer, IBC, a fairly rare type of breast cancer, has received over 10 million hits in the weeks since they put the six-minute video of the news segment on their website. IBC support groups have been receiving many more calls than usual from people wanting more information since the news video was made available online. To read reporter Michelle Esteban's Silent Killer news feature and watch the video,
Arnold Palmer, golfing legend and prostate cancer
survivor, has
Video game icon and gaming legend Lara Croft has been
chosen as spokesmodel for the Skin Cancer Awareness Sun Smart Teens Program. According to the skin cancer awareness
foundation, the goal of the Sun Smart Teens Program will be to raise awareness of skin cancer risks and educate teens
to the dangers of the sun. Because melanoma is being diagnosed in ever younger populations, the foundation has chosen a
spokesmodel they feel teens can relate to -- Lara Croft personifies the benefits of having a healthy body. Beginning
November 2006, Lara Croft's image will be used as part of a nationwide tour designed to educate and provide skin cancer
awareness information for teens. For more information, visit the 







